Mentoring: Who is that one

In a busy world, it is easy to become isolated and alone. There is a push to be “original” or “unique.” The younger generation wants to set out on their own “path” and be different from others. However, we need others. WMentoring: Who is that onee were not meant to live alone. 

Paul writes to Titus about a job he was assigned to complete: helping the church select elders to instruct others and helping the younger generation understand the value of learning from a mentor. They will learn what works best when it comes to serving God and that we are to work together to make life easier and move forward in the right direction.

This idea of individuality promotes the idea that we are to “think for ourselves.” It suggests that we might somehow escape the idea of following orders as if we can do life alone. This eliminates the reality of God being in charge of our lives.

We have lost the idea and blessing of a mentor. In Titus, Paul reminds Titus of his responsibilities and encourages him to show himself as a mentor.

So, who is that “one for you?” Who will be there for you? Who is the one who advises you when you are down, confused, or unsure of what to do next?

I am reminded of a story of a champion, USA’s Anita Alvares.  During a competition, she sank to the bottom of the pool. 

Looking across the deck, Andrea Fuentes noticed she was too long under the surface.  Fully clothed, she dove in, pulling her to safety. Anita was unconscious and couldn’t kick, paddle, or help herself in any way.

If Andrea had not noticed, Anita would have drowned. 

Can someone count on you to be that person who would go looking and notice when they are under too long and dive in to support you  when you  are all out of fight and fuel to swim in these turbulent waters we call life?”

What about if you are the one in the turbulent waters of life? Where can you find that person to help you?